While in previous centuries the strongest and the smartest were the most successful and most powerful, the 21st Century is all about Emotional Intelligence. Pessimist which is one of the forms of low Emotional Intelligence damages our Telomeres and therefore our genes, reducing our life expectancy by at least 7 years. Eighty percent of people get their dream jobs because of their attitude rather than their skills. Ninety percent of divorces happens because of poor Emotional Intelligence and lack of communication skills.